Why do we get hurt?
Because your mother scold you for the smallest reason possible! Or May be you had an argument with your closest friend, or may be your loved one did the one miserable thing you hate from the bottom of your heart!
Take some time, read this through.
We only get hurt by those who hold a very special place in life. Ask yourself, are they really very close? If NO, then why would you care! Stop wasting your emotions! Stop wasting your time! Move on! You have better things to do with your time!
And if YES, the person is really close to you, then keep in mind two things. One is that same person is your loved one. Your father, mother, sister, brother, friend or whoever it may be, we should always keep our relations before any argument. And the second is never say anything that you will regret later. Many times you say some things which are not meant to hurt but those words always do their damage!
Well come on, why you would even argue with your loved one!
Tell the same person that you are not okay with their behavior, swipe away all the disappointment with just one small talk! This hatred will cause abomination in your relation. This may lead your relation to a step, from where you will not be able to control anything further. Prevent this hatred, this disappointment which is going to lead your relation to the worst possible ending!
This will destroy one of the most beautiful thing human race have known as relation to the ground. STOP before you take any harsh step. Let go the Anger. Think. And Act!